Am I a romantic person?
A couple of friends who know me well call me a romantic every now and then.
I wrote poems.
I made cards.
I hand-made gifts.
I can easily let my imagination and beliefs drifting through the stars and make a wish to be transform into half robot (like Westworld) the very first chance I get.
I don’t see myself as a romantic.
The first time my partner shot a fish here in Siargao,
By the time we got on shore, it started raining and got heavier and heavier every 5 seconds.
He had to clean the fish before we headed home – avoiding the smell to linger at home.
The spot we went, before the water gets deep, the stones and corals circled into a natural pool.
So there we were,
Me standing, he crouching, under the pouring rain; both shivering due to the cold.
He labored on the fish; I savored the moment in this scene setting.
“Wow, this is by far the most romantic thing I’ve ever done with you!”
“You are kidding right??!”
Then, it hit me. I AM a romantic.
I just don’t fit in the grand gesture type. (The Hollywood romance, right?)
I love experiencing how the subtlety of love seeping through the molecule of daily life, like oxygen through the red cells.
I can be very raptured in moment like this.
So,
🪸 How many parts of you are trapped in others’ definitions of things?
🪸 How you believe you need to struggle or to beat yourself up before you being who you want to be?
🔛 What’s truly YOUR OWN romance?
I love you.
I love you.
I love you.
Be love and be loved.