What if I tell you ALL our efforts – strategies, plans, actions – are not meant to reach or to create anything?
Hear me out. This is how I got this epiphany.
The photo was me, sweating, in the gym back in the day.
I was enthusiastic.
I loved the feeling of having something in control in life, my body.
I am addicted to visual my limitless potential through my body in every training.
I turned diet savvy from someone who loves to put junk food in her mouth.
I pulled through a lot of the sessions, tears in my eyes.
8 years in, I was my worst critique – no firm abb (not firm enough!!); body fat was stagnated at 19% (!).
Then, I found out I was burned out and my energy field was hectic.
The start of my business was a total frustration since I couldn’t mentally focus and physically barely holds together.
I was called to Pause.
For everything – physical training, strict diet, extensive surfing hours, business and most of human connections.
Among all more important things I needed to put on hold, I was worried about my physical figure!
Yet, from over-control, I was left with no control since I had nothing left in me to control.
I entered the learning to heed the needs of my body and spiritual energy.
I ate for 4 people per day, including much carb. (Not exaggerating)
I slept on an average 14 hours a day. (True story)
I sometimes surfed for max 2 hours (compared to 3-4 everyday prior) and did relax yoga once a week.
For the whole year, my weight didn’t go up but down.
After 15 months, those results I so desperately to get in the gym showed up – firm abb, lower body fat with plus, more feminine lines and curve.
Isn’t it curious?!
No, my body is not gym perfect but it’s finally perfect as it is born to be.
How I know?
Because I accept all of its periodical and seasonal rise and fall.
When I finally nurtured myself back and ready to enjoy the world as my oyster again, business, partnerships and connections popped their heads out, inviting, slowly as I woke to my new found rhythm.
I am a living proof that what we think will work may not and what we believe won’t work may.
So, think again, what do efforts really FOR if we have no control where it will lead or end up?
💡Here is a new paradigm for you.
💎What if we are simply the conduit for things to happen?
Sometimes through actions and sometimes through inactions.
And in the eyes of the Universal force, our mere existence is action.
💎All those dreams and ideals are ALREADY exit out there somewhere and eagerly awaiting us to be ready (clean the pipe?) to flow through.
💎”HOW can we prepare ourselves to be a conduit without blockage” is the question.
Be love and be loved.
What if I tell you ALL our efforts are not meant to reach or to create anything?
